Carrying the Baggage !!!

Once upon a time, in a forest there were a bunch of animals living happily , days pass by normally as everyday without much of surprises.
the beautiful landscapes, the freely flowing river and the calming sound of the splashing water, the chirping sound of the birds, and the joyful sound of the other animals, remind of a paradise.

 Among this paradise there was a pregnant deer who is even more happy that it is going to give birth to a baby. 
she was waiting to see the baby and have been so caring about her baby. 
the time has come near for the baby to come out and it could happen any day. 

She started to feel the delivery pains Ans she knew she can give birth any moment....  

 It has been searching for a good place to rest and found a secluded place near by a river which is so beautiful and pleasant to stay. 
It has decided that place so that it can stay peaceful and happy and make it easy for giving birth.
It is a sunny day with nice breeze and the deer started to enjoy the moment. 

And she was about to deliver the baby deer....  
It slowly became cloudy and it was too pleasant a weather for the deer.
Unexpectedly there was a lightning that struck in the forest which resulted in a huge fire in the forest. 

The deer was so worried what do do and suddenly it heard a huge roar from behind. It looked back and found a lion which came there from behind and waiting to kill it and eat. 

And it decided to run forward and saw a hunteR with his arrow pointed to the deer.

The deer was devastated with no way to escape and was very worried what to do. 


Finally it decided that what's happening is something not in her control..  And decided to focus on what is in its control : 
Which is giving birth. 

The hunter was about to release the arrow and suddenly the was a lightning. The hunter missed his focus the arrow was released travelling towards the deer, it missed the deer and it hit the hungry lion which was about to kill the deer 
And seeing that lion jumped towards him he ran away and the hurt lion died. 

Then there was a rain and the fire was put off. 

And finally the rain ended.. And there came a rainbow and the deer was there with its just born baby. 


 When you can't control what is going wrong just focus on what you can control. control the way you respond to whats happening 

 we tend to think too much about whats happening and get worried about it and dwell much in the past and we forget it is what we are going to do now will decide your destination but not your past. 

 I would like to remind you of two statements:
Any decision can be made right with a series of actions that follow

Today is the first day for the rest of your life !!! 

 Its not what you were that decides your future its what you do today. 

 Don't panic. Believe in your call and keep working on it. Don't crumble

 Don't React, Respond: Understand what has happened or what is happening and respond to it rather than messing it up with your emotions. 

If you are distracted, then don't force yourself to thing you aren't! Accept the fact what is happening..

 Trying not to be distracted only takes energy away from you. 
Get rid of it and focus your energy completely on your tasks

Visualize the successful outcome

Feel confident. Make yourself understand it's okay... And concentrate on now. 

 Just keep working on whats in your control and you will reach your goals. 
I do reiterate again!!!
Today is the first day for the rest of your life.

Don't let the thought of what has happened and the fear of what might happen make nothing happen..!! 



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